The Model Of A Charmless Man...

[famous_katie]

I spent the  night with him, he invited me over and I jumped at the chance to see him like some pathetic desperate moron, was all lovely with him, and when I left and he said he'd call/text I told him he wouldn't, I was like 'No you actually fucking won't!' and he SWORE on his LIFE he would.
Promised me faithfully.

I wouldn't be so angry and wound up

Comments

[swifted]

i really don't understand the male species at all... it sounds like you deserve much better than this!

[famous_katie]

Haha, I agree!
xxx

[inthemovies]

Awww, hun, boys suck *offers hug* Just don't do anything that you're not comfortable with, or won't be comfortable with afterwards. You're the one in the right here, it's perfectly reasonable of you to ask this of him, and if he doesn't do what you ask then he's not worth it. I know it's hard when you feel that way about someone, but just remember that. I hope you're OK :(

[famous_katie]

my wording is shit, not 'cmfortable' with it, I'm so comfortable and relaxed around him, just more like 'trusting' if you know what I mean?
I don't want that tragic cliche of 'I slept with him and he never called!' the typical loves-the-chase guy.
xxx

[famous_katie]

but thankyou for the lovely comment! Is nice to have people say that instead of all my friends 'forget about him kate, you're making a fool out of yourself - he's fucking you around' I KNOW GUYS! haha.
xxx

[pineapple4nick]

Boys are dumb!
Try doing things that will get your mind off him (it's hard, I know). You don't deserve this, really.

*hugs*
xx

[letstakeitback]

boys are the most unreliable things in the world. more unreliable than the weather in england. i hope he's got a geniune excuse. if not then fuck him. not worth the hassle. x

[famous_katie]

I knooooow, I also know that really he isn't the kind to purposefully fuck people around, he just is lazy and dopey and forgetful and I can't be too mad at him when I know I'm making excuses...
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[plastictoy]

If he can't be arsed to text you then he's not worth it. & I'm sure you know that girls should never text first (my mother rammed such rules down my throat before I was old enough to have any interest in boys, I wish that phase had lasted forever...). I personally wouldn't give him the satisfaction of a reply when he does text you, especially not one that shows you're bothered, if you have to reply, I'd just be civil, but not engage in conversation.

Oh & please don't do anything you're not comfortable with! You deserve much better.

That said, I am the last person who should be giving advice on such things, seeing as I'm doing almost the same thing & know that I won't take my own advice into account.

[famous_katie]

I know, and I would give the same advice to anyone else but OMG! So hard, especially when I have been obsessing on the reply!
xxx