#o17 - // your revolution is a joke //

[fanficjunkie]

If a friend hurts you unintentionally, but does so a lot, and then you try to tell her about it and she acts as if you're on drugs and claims she's acting like always, what do you do?

This time I know it isn't me.

I want to know what's going on and why I suddenly need to be scared of losing my best friend.

Comments

[phoenix7771]

*hugs*

I suppose that you could get into a fight with her... usually a lot comes out that way. But if that doesn't work you could try to drift a little, find something else to do so you don't think about it all the time, give her space, and yourself and then try again in a few days. Not the fight, which is not nessacary, but the talking to her again.

I only know that's how it works with my friends when they do that to me, so it's probably different for you since you know you're nothing like me.

Maybe something is going on that she doesn't want to / can't talk about to anyone and giving it a little bit of time will give her time to sort it out and then she'll tell you?

But if it keeps on going, then its probably better to simply drift... if possible. Because otherwise you'll be unhappy because you're giving and she's not returning (at least with anything nice).

I know though that you have to do something to take your mind off of it, something that will stop you thinking about it before you go to bed, or else you'll never get to