Ok. So I just talked to my ex boyfriend, Sid, for the first time in three months. I think I'm meeting him for either coffee or dinner tomorrow. Shit
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Girl, you'd better not let that boy mess with you again. Hopefully he'll hold his tongue tomorrow and not say anything he'll regret. Because otherwise I'll hunt him down and kick his ass.
He asked me to get dinner with him tonight but that was just too weird. I don't even know what I'm doing. I really don't know if I'm ready to see him. I really wanted him to just send me a freakin' letter back. And I kind of wanted to wait until summer to see him. But I can't very well say "actually no, I don't want to see you. I just wrote you a two page letter. See you in the summer."
It'll be so fucking awkward. What'll we do? Hug? Kiss on the cheek? UGH.
Ack. It sounds like an awkward situation. Not that I know any background on this but in my opinion, you should just stick your ground. Don't be cold or anything, but don't give him any hint that there's any chance of you getting back together (Unless you want that, which I have no idea ^^)...but yeah, I suck at giving advice...
It all sounds rather "WTF" ish to me. Him. Not you. *sits back down*
Sounds awkward-like. Part of me thinks "yay, he wants to see you" but another part can see a big neon "be careful" sign, if you know what I mean. Probably not, I'm talking to gibberish.
And as others have said, it does sound a little odd. Maybe he's realised he made a mistake? I don't know, but I hope it's not too awkward for you Lauren.
Yeah, I'm wondering what drove his "change of heart" from IHATEYOU to ok let's be friends. I'm going to ask him some questions straight up, like "why did you say you couldn't believe you ever loved me?" because I want and deserve some answers.
HELL NO. It's just weird to be in someone's life every day for that long and then be cut out. I basically just want to catch up and see if we can get some kind of closure.
well, that being said, i'd say dinner is a bad idea. that could lead him to think you do want to get together with him. i'd try for a more casual setting to talk to him about whatever. then again, it's your call. do whatever you see fit.
I'd be careful if I were you....he seems confused and even volatile. Maybe it's best not to see him, but I know how these things go - you will probably have the overwhelming urge to see him. Who knows why the human heart is so foolish? Anyway, my advice, for what it's worth, is to leave him alone and forget even being friends with him. Find someone who appreciates you.
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It'll be so fucking awkward. What'll we do? Hug? Kiss on the cheek? UGH.
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It all sounds rather "WTF" ish to me. Him. Not you. *sits back down*
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And as others have said, it does sound a little odd. Maybe he's realised he made a mistake? I don't know, but I hope it's not too awkward for you Lauren.
*hugs*
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then again, it's your call. do whatever you see fit.
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