its funny how one really good/simple night can change your idea of things. i was recently listening to keisha cole, a soul singer, talk about some of her songs and i noticed we figured out some of the same things. She said that the biggest challenge in her life was to realize that you cant force someone to love you. i realized i was coming to that
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it really has nothing to do with the other person, if you really love someone, it shouldnt matter how they feel. when you tell someone, "i love you" they are the direct object in that sentance, the OBJECt! I love you is a completely selfish statement, about how YOU feel. Love is SELFISH, its insecurity when you care about how they feel about you, people cant MAKE you feel anything unless you let them. if someone says you arent good enough to love and you choose to believe them over your own thoughts then thats you making YOURSELF feel bad.
Okay, i feel like my comments are really my own journal entries cause i feel like i am writing them more to myself then you, hahaha, sorry. i dont even know if what i wrote was coherent, but it made me feel better, haha.
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