Do I stand a chance?
Section 1: Basic Information
Name:Monique (Mojo)
Age:18
Location:San Jose, California
Sizes:18/20, XL
What does your user name mean:My user name comes from one of my favorite songs "Pretty Girl" by Sugarcult, he says "You can never get him out of you head" so I shortened it to
nvr-Never
out-Out
uv-Of
ur-Your
head-Head
people have a tough time of figuring that out! :-D
Section 2: The Inner You
Sexual preference: I am straight, but maybe bi curious-I kiss girls, but it doesn't really turn me on. I feel that I am free to be with who I am when I want, but I just cannot see myself actually "dating" another girl you know?
Relationship status: Single :-(
Religious/spiritual affiliation: Well I believe that there is a God out there, but I do not believe in the one that I have been raised on, it seems that I haven't found the right one out there yet.
Political affiliation: I don't really care about politics too much. I feel they are a waste of time seeing as the elections are rigged anyways!!! (hello BUSH Jr.!!!) But I am very opinionated and love to speak my mind on what I truly believe in.
Any other affiliations you feel like mentioning: um, I'm not really sure -_-
Your idol/role model:My mommy, I love her so much, without her I would be dead by now or out on the streets involved with drugs and probably prostitution! No seriously though, she is the strongest person tha I know, she has been through so much, what with my father, and her health. She has diabetes and just had a kidney transplant, NEVER did she ever complain before nor after her surgery. She just puts on a smile and puts me first no matter what.
Best personality trait: I like how I can make people laugh, and most people say that my opinions are pretty rad, they say that I stand ground in my beliefs. I usually speak my mind, and the truth. Plus I like to believe I am a good friend, I'm always there in times of need.
Worst personality trait: Sometimes my opinions get me in trouble, and sometimes I don't know when to stop.
Section 3: The Outer You
Clothing style/brands: I'm a plain jane jeans and t-shirt gal. I shop at Target, Old Navy, Hot Topic, Torrid, and sometimes the occasional thrift store. I wear a lot of black t's and sweaters. Some say I have a little bit of "store-brand" punk in me, based on my hair colors(red and black) and peircings.
Makeup style/brands:I only wear eyeliner and lipgloss.No one but my mama and bff have seen me without eyeliner!
Piercings: I have the left side of my lip peirced, and the usual two ear peircings, and the inside of my left ear periced( I don't know what that is called!!)
Tattoos: A rose inside of a star on my left shoulder. I first I got it when I was 16 from my friend, she used a jelly roll pen and a safety pin! It hurt like hell and took 2 hours to do and it came out all uneven and spotty! I just got it fixed professionally last month (2 years later!)
Best physical feature:I like my lips and eyes the best.
Worst physical feature: I don't like my legs. It's a catch-22 with them, I hate how white they are, but I hate wearing shorts, so I'm stuck with the white legs. (I'm too poor to go to a tanning booth!!)
Section 4: Favorites
Foods: Chicken! I love any kind; fried, roasted, grilled, baked, etc.. also I love chinese food! (beef and broccoli and oh man I am soo addicted to orange chicken from Panda Express!)I'm not so much into pizza, it's good sometimes though.
Drinks: Soda-Diet coke with no ice and lemon (I'm not saying diet because of the whole weight thing, it's because I am a diabetic) Alcohol-Smirnoff apple twist! yummy
Hobbies:I love to hang out with my friends, that usually includes going downtown and getting some free strabucks from my friend, or visiting my friend (and former childhood crush) at his work, or going to my current crushes house to just crash on his sofa and watch a movie.
Bands/Musicians: My taste varies greatly, I love everthing from Postal Service, to Damien Rice, to Usher, to Sugarcult, Him, Smile Empty Soul, Vanessa Carlton, Garden State soundtrack, Ciara, Death Cab for Cutie, Postal Service, The Killers, Longview, Switchfoot, Metallica, Elton John, Blondie, Pat Benatar, The Beach Boys, Temptations, Garbage, Franki Valli, The Drifters, Atmosphere, Trapt,2Pac,Breaking Benjamin,Incubus, Frou Frou, Baby Bash, Frankie J., Evanescence, Adema, 112, Lonestar,Ashlee Simpson, Slug, JT,etc..
Movies: Closer, Garden State, Harold and Kuman, Donnie Darko, Ghost World, The Dreamers, 25th Hour, Fight Club, American History X (anything with Ed Norton!) Y Tu Mama Tambien, Ammores Perros, the punisher, breakfast club, Welcome to the Dollhouse, Blow, Detroit Rock City, Saw, Cruel Intentions, BULLY, Kids, Van Wilder, Wicker Park, trainspotting, requiem for a dream, spun, swimming pool, whitce chicks, apt pupil, dueces wild, the notebook..and a few other ;-)
TV/Cable Shows: I am ADDICTED to Elimidate! I just love watching all those girls making fools of themselves fighting over some ugly ass guy! I also am starting to watch Desperate Housewives (thank God for tonights episode,wher I got to catch up!) and Grey's Anatomny, also my guilty pleasure is Degrassi, I love how their situations are so real, even at such a young age.
Clothing stores: Target, Old Navy, Torrid, Crossroads (local thrift store) and Savers
Section 5: Opinions
Abortion: For. That one is sketchy even for me. I believe in women's rights and I can see how the situation would arise, some of my girlfriends have gone through it. However, I understand why people are against it. It's like killing a life that never got to happen, and the whole Bethoveen(? spelling) story freaked me out (how his mother had a disease and his sibling were sick, and he should have been aborted considering the circumstances, but thank goodness he wasn't...).
Drugs: Agains. My father did them, and right now he is in rehab for doing so...I just see how it messed up his life and I don't want that for me at all. He put us through so much, and the very first time I met him was when I was ten, and he was in rehab...it was a little traumatizing to say the least.
War: Eh...Against/For..both...I want to say against for the obvious reasons such as death, and destruction, but for beacause peace is just too unattainable, a fantasy of a perfect utopia that will never come, in a way war brings us balance...It gives us something to fight for and believe in, it shows that there actually is some ambition in the world.
Racism: Against. There really is no point. Skin color should make no difference, I am Mexican-American myself and my best friend is African-American. I see how my relatives stuggle, and how her family struggles just because of our skin pigment. Race has never ever been an issue to me personally and I thank God (whoever that may be)for that.
Death penalty: Against. There are other ways to condemn a person. Sometimes a lifetime of solitude is so much more punishable than no life at all. Even if the person gets off on parole in the end what kind of jobs can they get now that they have been labeled a true criminal? Who's really going to be there for THEM in the end.
What should the legal driving age be: Doesn't really matter, as long as you know how to maintain the vehicle and can see over the the dashboard I say "Hey, give them kids a liscence!"
What should the legal drinking age be: Definitley 18, only because it seems that every other country has adopted that rule, and actually the alcohol related crime rates are much lower in those places than here. It's that whole "you want what you can't have" theory. Kids want booze so they break some laws doing so, just to piss off those cops who say "no son, your going to drive drunk and kill people". (No, that's what the irresponsible "adults" are for) If we are labled adults and get all those great responsibilites at 18, why not be able to take off some of that stress with some booze?
What should be the smallest size to be considered a plus: I think 16 should be, only because those companies that hire plus size models hire the people at the VERY limit and those people are still really really thin. I see some of those models and STILL think, "damn I better put this oreo down".
Section 6: Fat Chance
How did you find Fat Chance: I came here from the mostprettyfats community, katesparkle linked me! They were all being kinda mean to me, so she showed me love and said that this community was much nicer (')(') *big puppy dog eyes*
Promote us to at least one person or community: ok no prob! juliaahwarshek
Why do you want to be part of our community: I want to be accepted and aknowledged for the pretty plus size woman that I am. Plus I want to have some chill friends to talk to!
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