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[fat_momma]

sometimes i feel i hate my husband...i really do. he has given this feeling everytime i eat that i should be ashamed. just a while ago i went to hug him and he said get off me your too heavy. i dont know why he says these things, but its reallly kills me inside. i have lost 50 pounds the last 2 months. i just had a baby, but , he cant be

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Hello :)

[goddessdream]

I saw your post around the communities... I am also 26 and trying to lose weight. I am just popping in to say hi and I *do* understand how sometimes the comments of those you love will come out hurtful... well, good luck with your diet and feel free to add me, I think one big help and difference with my own diet this time around is I have LJ support and it is encouraging.

damn husbands!!

[skinny_fairy]

I know just how you feel.. I have been married for 4 yrs and have had 2 kids. In 4 yrs!!3 kids total.. (The baby is 11 months and I am nursing and they say not to diet while nursing.) I tell my husband all the time that I want to look like I did before the kids and he is a total ass about it. Saying that the kids thrashed my body and that I will never look like that again. I look at all the pre-kids pictures when I was only 117, and I looked so damn hot. He says that I was too skinny.. What the fuck! That is how I looked when he fell in love with me! I know he doesn't care how I look, but I can't help but feel like I need to look like I did before.. If not for him than me. I see how he looks at all the hot little bitches on tv or where ever.. but I didn't look that good when I was that small... I think he likes me fat as no one else looks at me.. Remember that.. their asshole-ness, is most likely stemming from some insecurity... Screw them.. We will be hot, and they will thank us