and if it helps, you do have more than one mother now, and she's a peach. mothers are a difficult animal -- I'm only just realizing that mine can be immature or going through the same fuckups as me -- and it always hits hardest when the ones we love most are the ones who let us down. you're finding the snag and fixing it early, where she is going to be more set in her ways, and that's different kinds of challenging for both of you. if nothing else, my best advice is to step back and take it one day, one task, one call at a time.
we've got just over 5 months to make the perfect day, bad memories be damned. take a breath, and we're go.
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and if it helps, you do have more than one mother now, and she's a peach. mothers are a difficult animal -- I'm only just realizing that mine can be immature or going through the same fuckups as me -- and it always hits hardest when the ones we love most are the ones who let us down. you're finding the snag and fixing it early, where she is going to be more set in her ways, and that's different kinds of challenging for both of you. if nothing else, my best advice is to step back and take it one day, one task, one call at a time.
we've got just over 5 months to make the perfect day, bad memories be damned. take a breath, and we're go.
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