"Because of this, I have this disgusting habit of doing everything possible to ALWAYS know the truth, and I usually either figure it out after being lied to or just know it in general."
Im the same way. Ill call you later today to see what's going on.
But... you know should remember that sometimes lies are told purely out of protection. Alas, don't let someones lies begin to hurt you. Be careful... you are a smart girl.
<3333whitney
p.s- i like when you come to dover and keep me company when our guys are away. : ) remember, you can talk to me about this situation whenever you'd like... cause i can most likely relate. <3
Everyone always says they want to hear the truth and that lying is worse. But damn sometimes I wish I could just believe the lie and not even question it. Because if its a lie, that person will have to live with it-and if they can live with it..its on them not you.
I'm not innocent by any means for lying and what's bad is sometimes I dont even consider it lying. It's just an individuals perception of the matter. Go with your gut Vicki b/c if you're 2nd guessing your instinct, what else are you going to rely on.
I know exactly how you feel about lying becoming a way of life. Many times we do this to make others not worry about us, not to make them feel bad, or to keep things secret to those who you know it would hurt(sometimes ourselves). I dont think anyone likes being lied to and just because you aren't deliberately lying to someone hiding the truth can make people feel the same way. I know i have lied to have someone to not to think less of me, to not have a friend mad at me, to keep someone from worrying about me, and to keep someone from getting hurt. I personally get a strong feeling when someone is lying to me about something bad or serious.. If you have this feeling you should try and find out, but it will most likely stir up some serious tention. Make sure you are ready for it. If you feel like you are being left in the dark, ask carefully about it, don't push. If it doesn't seem to serious leave it alone. No one can help you to cope being lie to except for maybe talking with a friend. Let people know that lies in your friendship
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Im the same way. Ill call you later today to see what's going on.
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But... you know should remember that sometimes lies are told purely out of protection. Alas, don't let someones lies begin to hurt you. Be careful... you are a smart girl.
<3333whitney
p.s- i like when you come to dover and keep me company when our guys are away. : ) remember, you can talk to me about this situation whenever you'd like... cause i can most likely relate. <3
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I'm not innocent by any means for lying and what's bad is sometimes I dont even consider it lying. It's just an individuals perception of the matter. Go with your gut Vicki b/c if you're 2nd guessing your instinct, what else are you going to rely on.
Good luck,
Wids
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