why...?

[fdsice]

man doesnt life suck. I have one true frined thats has been there thought it all with me. You want to know the whole irony of it all, it seems like all we do is fight. I dont want to fight with him but that is all we do and i am tired of it. We are almost at the point to were we dont talk and i never thought we would be like that. I always thought

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one true friend

[shotsneeded]

right....you have one true friend.....you got alot more than you think......

Re: one true friend

[manus_nigrum]

Not one friend...One true friend. We all have tons of friends, people that we hang out with Denny's, school, work, Starbucks whatever. Everyone has lots of people like that they like, that they talk too, but you don't always have the ability to be completly comfortable with everyone you talk to, or even everyone you even like. She's talking about that one person that she feels truly connected to. The person that she thinks (rightly or wrongly it dosn't matter) understands her

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[what_if_angel]

Sigh... Here is a lesson I learned the hard way. Hopefully by sharing this with you, things will turn out better for you than it did for me.

You have to get to the source of the problem. There is only one reason two friends would fight over stupid little things. That would be because one, or both of them, are bitter or resentful about something much deeper and more significant. (Most people aren't even aware they are doing this) You have to find the unresolved issue that is responsible for causing this friction between the two of you and put it to rest.
Otherwise...Well...All the fighting is just adding fuel to the fire, and the resentfulness will only get worse and worse.

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[fdsice]

thanks for the adviced i have been looking for some good advice