i appreciate that, i do. and i think each one of us would have reasons to complain... relationships are never perfect. but it's still a big regret of mine (even though it's not really my fault).
and i've always understood the excuses/reasons, but it doesn't change anything. part of being friends is hanging out and having it be mundane or boring. i still feel like i really missed out.
but again, when it's all said and done, we still have a pretty special friendship.
Say what you want Molly but I have always appreciated you and treated you like a human being. I'm not a bad friend to you either. I do, however, understand where you are coming from. I feel left out often times when I'm standing right next to you guys. Or when I was with Emily and Lindsay it was always them hanging out and me sitting on the sidelines. I totally third wheel it with those two. We all feel alienated in some way. I think you have a problem with not putting everything into the correct perspective. You put yourself in this position to make yourself seem like the one friend that looks in from the outside and that isn't true at all.
We aren't the perfect friends but I've always thought that our friendship was really strong and it pains me... disappoints me when I see you say things like this. It's almost as if our friendship doesn't matter. Like it isn't good enough for you. It really makes me upset.
i've thought about it a lot from different perspectives, and i agree that we all have reasons to feel isolated. because that's kind of the way our friendship works. i promise that i don't see myself as the one friend on the outside, but i don't think anyone has had the same situation as i have, with not being a part of those moments. that's something i can get over, but i need you to understand, and not criticize me for having a problem with it. granted, everyone has there own specific complaints, but that doesn't mean i can't have mine
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Now you won't feel like an idiot!
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and i've always understood the excuses/reasons, but it doesn't change anything. part of being friends is hanging out and having it be mundane or boring. i still feel like i really missed out.
but again, when it's all said and done, we still have a pretty special friendship.
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We aren't the perfect friends but I've always thought that our friendship was really strong and it pains me... disappoints me when I see you say things like this. It's almost as if our friendship doesn't matter. Like it isn't good enough for you. It really makes me upset.
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We still cool. I love you guuuurrrlfryeeend!
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