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[feelmypainbtch]

Our faces, are decided by the faces of our hearts.
The faces of our hearts are decided by the faces of others,
the Face of our surroundings,
And the Face which only our ears can see.
Our hearts(and emotions) are not ours.
The things that happen around us our out of our control to how they affect us.
To an Extent.

Comments

[be4utynotmy0wn]

i saw you yesterday when i was driving with aaron minyard. it was weird, i haven't seen you in forever.

[feelmypainbtch]

really? where was I?

[alovers_facade]

to an extent....BUT

how much you allow people to infulence you is up to you...weather you want to be an individulal, or appease them. Sometimes it can be about trying new things, but that only goes as far as your convictions. Its unavoidable at times, compromise always happens, but it IS a choice. We choose to react to things the way we do, we can control our depression, or our happiness. Our reactions to things reflect the way we view life. and that is up to us

[feelmypainbtch]

but sibconciesly there is no hold on our feelings, people will alwlays rub off on us wether we like it or not. we cant choose tob e happy be cant choose to be sad, it jsut happens we can try to numb our feelings as a whole, but that gets a person no where.

[alovers_facade]

mmmmm I could understand that to some extent. But thats like saying you have no free will, that you cant decide anything for yourself. I agree, you cant wakeup one day and decide to be a certain way, you have to work at it. God gave us free will and we can mold ourselves into who we desire to be and who he has created us to be. If I want I could choose to start viewing life as pointless, as something I have failed at, I could decide to go do coke, and start trying to find ways to want get out of it. I choose dayly the way I feel when I wake up, if something crappy happens I can see it as an end or test, and something that I will envtually pull through and grow from

[feelmypainbtch]

you are talking aobut free will in another context. Thats personality, im not talking aobut personality im talking about inner feelings and how drama is so inescapable. Like you say we have the will to look at these hardships as a trail or an end. But thats how we look at it. That doesnt change the way we feel. See we can change our perceptuals on situations but usually it doesnt change the way we feel; we still feel that way. Like if someone died we can see it as an end to their existance or a beginning to their eternal life, But we still mourn them with our grief even though we choose to see it through the "happy eyes" we still feel that shitty feeling deep inside that they are gone, seperated from us. and Yes the bible says seeing everything through Gods eyes. But seeing everything through his eyes isnt gonna make us feel better or make us totally unreachable by lifes drama and what we feel about it and other people. Things that happen too us are out of control to hwo they effect us. we are effected by them, maybe jsut a

[alovers_facade]

I can see where your coming from. Like, really really can but I dont believe that our emotions are completely dictated for us by our surroundings. I think things will effect our emotions and to some extent part of it you wont have control over, but the amount you let it affect you you have control over. And I think your outlook can effect your emotions a huuuuge deal. If people you hang out with are affecting you negatively, then you should try hanging out with other people (not you, you as in....humans)in psychology there are seven basic emotions: joy, sadness, anger, love, fear, shame, and surprise. Other emotions are regarded as combinations of these basic seven. The emotions you feel in any situation and how you respond to them will depend on four factors: your basic personality, how much control you have over your emotions, your emotional reactivity, and your flexibility. Control of those emotions is achieved by controlling the thoughts that cause them.

haha we arent getting anywhere

[feelmypainbtch]

i never said completely i said to an extent. part of it is out of hand, but we still can control it.