enough is enough!

[feles_dormiens]

i don't like feeling that i'm being taken for granted. in fact, i'm sure that many of you don't like it either. unfortunately, i've beginning to think that this is what is what has been happening to me in the past few weeks. perhaps it's my personality- when i'm interested in something or i want to do something, i'm usually quite happy to organise

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[shayan]

if they are really your friends, i'm sure you'll be able to talk about it with them and let them know how you feel. hugs*

[feles_dormiens]

if i thought they would understand, do you think that i wouldn't have tried? but everyone seems caught up in their own little dramas and frankly, it seems that when i try to talk about what i'm going through, the conversation ends up being about them because and here i'm paraphrasing- you're almost done, how hard can it be? *rolls eyes*

i'm just going to keep my head down and get it done. maybe it's also being able to see the finishing line and just wanting to get on with it as best as i can without getting caught up in the dramas of others :)

[debbstar]

oh man i totally get what you mean though. sometimes it seems like people want stuff done but they're just too damn lazy to do it themselves!

[feles_dormiens]

yeah. i can't stand it when they want something but they can't be arsed to go get it done themselves. another things that annoys me is that they think it's so damn easy so they don't see why you should be making such a fuss about doing it. and you're thinking- well if it's so damn easy, you do it then.

i told you i was going to be a grumpy bitch till the thesis was done. :P

[debbstar]

EXACTLY!!
hahahaha
i mean i don't mind helping people out, but i'm also not your slave lor!!

[missgiam]

*i'd* like to be one of those people who just show up and expect everything to be organised. i'd come in and say, "so how ah?"

but i'd be pissed if i were you, it's not fair that they expect you to do everything all the time!

[feles_dormiens]

i guess i always try to pre-empt possible scenarios by being as prepared as possible with the information that is necessary and they've just gotten so used to it, that they expect it now.
all said and done- i usually don't mind doing it. just that recently, i feel that i'm becoming really petty and small-minded over stuff like that and i don't like feeling that way so i've decided the best way is not to do it anymore. why do i want to go on and make myself feel miserable? :)