as someone who has her own fair share of self-esteem issues, the thing that i've found is the more masks you have, and the more roles you have to start playing because of them, the more you're asking for trouble. eventually, your roles will start conflicting and you'll have to figure out how to handle thesituation at hand. you can pick on of the masks, or you can do some introspection and figure out what you would do in such a situation if there were no masks there. and thats the hardest thing ive ever had to do, but it does give you some resolution once you get there. that probably didnt make any sense but trust me, it's true anyway. i love you fernie, and if you want to talk aobut it in person sometime we can!
assuming I am one of the few, I know sometimes we can be hard on you.. but I think at least for me, it just becomes frustrating that you would attempt to use a mask on us, knowing that we can see through it. we may come out as harsh, but we just see more in you than what you present & in our own way, we want to see you come out of it. we love you Fernie & while everyone has their masks, you can trust us & put them aside.
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