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[ferretsofglory]

And somehow, now, it's all my fault and I'm making all the wrong steps. Fun, this. I accept my faults and try to amend what can be amended. Don't know what to do lets see you run off when my parents got here and I can kind of get that. To them it was a huge enough slap that they cut the trip short. And now you don't want to come home because you

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[wuweibaby]

she can't own what she's done, so she has to blame you.
see, that's what. it's too big for her. it's too much guilt.

i have angry words but will keep them to myself.

<3

[ferretsofglory]

I guess that is it, just so hard to believe, this is such a different person now. I don't even know her right now.

[ravengirl]

It's just her dark side. She's still in there, the "she" that you knew.

[ferretsofglory]

Do you keep knocking on the door and hope that she will come back out?

[ravengirl]

Be the bigger person. Yeah, relationships are two-way streets. Yeah, she might have made a choice based on her perception of how you and she were relating, but it was still her choice to go outside of the relationship.

Be the bigger person. Meet stupidity with silence and remind yourself that you are not to blame for her poor choices.

I can't tell from here if you're trying to negotiate a reconciliation. It sounds like she's with him, still. What to do, indeed. *love*

[ferretsofglory]

I had been trying to get some path of reconcile, but she refuses to leave that relationship and isn't really listening. Big blow up, virtual because she split, this weekend over my Facebook and how dare me exposing things on there and now she does not feel safe around me, which I assuming she's adding to not wanting Jordan around me either

[ferretsofglory]

And thank you, your words and thoughts mean a lot

[ravengirl]

While I do understand one point, that I would not want my personal life being aired on Facebook (cryptic or not, I'm afraid), it was she who turned from you, lied and cheated, first. She has left. She may be fearful at this point, fearful of the consequences of what she herself has wrought.

Sweetie, it doesn't look good at this point. But I still advise professional guidance. Offer it, at least. If she doesn't want to face things and reconcile, I see no point.

I wish I was there for you, coffees and drinks and talk talk talk. *love*