weekend rambles

[fervently]

I don't quite know why I'm updating this, because a) I've told Dan that I wouldn't really update this anymore, because he thinks I may be writing secret entries.. mwaha, and b) because I have nothing to say. nothing of interest anyway

Comments

[favorite_star]

that sucks. mentally and emotionally losing a parent, or anyone, is much worse than physically losing one. i wish i had something profound to share. unfortunately, i hate my dad, and am so glad i don thave to have anything to do with him anymore now if i don't want to. :) heh. *hugs* i hope everything gets better and that you get your dad back.

[fervently]

*hugs* thank you.

[_thereishope_]

<333 I dont know what to say:\

[faithlolita]

I'm so sorry, I really don't have any words of wisdom or anything. I know it must be hard for you. I don't even have a dad around, so I can't offer much advice. He left, and I literally mean left, when I was 13, just leaving a note. He left us all for another woman, and I don't have anything to do with him anymore (I haven't seen him in 6 years) and I don't have any emotion for him at all.
Sometimes life just happens, and you have to think that maybe in a few years it all happened for the best. Looking back, I'm glad what happened did happen, because things are good now. Sure, we don't have as much money as we used to and we've lost half of our family, but my relationship with my mum has never been better.
Hope things get better for you - hugs :)

[fervently]

I'm sorry about your father. sometimes things happen for a reason. when I read things like that, about people who don't even HAVE fathers... well I feel sort of selfish. lol. but I'm glad that you see it the way you do. you're a strong girl. *hug*

[faithlolita]

Don't feel selfish, I don't feel sorry for myself or anything. I don't miss him at all, I just miss the idea of having a dad around, but not him.
I understand where you're coming from, I feel the same way about my nan sometimes, since my grandad died. Sometimes she's fine, sometimes she's like a shell of her former self and I feel horrible for sometimes not even wanting to be around her.
Hopefully things will look up :)

[aping]

man, what you're going through sounds so tough. i'm so sorry to hear that and I really hope that he will turn around. i kind of know how you feel about losing a loved one emotionally. my grandma raised me and she has slowly been dying to cancer the past 3 years. she's at the point where she's almost a vegetable now and she slowly came to this point. it is a horrible thing to experience.

[ohsoang]

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