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[fiacha]

Austin and I had a big fight today. But I guess it doesn't matter because we've been broken up for over a month. I guess the whole I-still-need-to-live-with-my-ex-boyfriend-for-a-month-because-I-don't-have-anywhere-else-to-go thing isn't really so good when you're trying to stay friends

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[pookamiss]

now this is a personal opinion, so its not nessisarilly right. but i dont thik its wise to live with a boyfriend while you both are still in college, unless you are married or have a kid.....you get what im saying. college life is just such a changing period in a young persons life. one is developing as a person, its just not a good time to say "oh i love you, lets move in together" a year outta college you will see that your views and your maturity level has changed since you were 18 when you first entered college. your basically 50% a different person. you have learned some life lessons at this point and know what you want. adding a hard core relationship into that mix of change is probablly going to end in the parting of ways. i personally believe alot of people move in with eachother while they are still in the "awwww.... rosey glasses" phase. really if you love them so much, date them way over a year before take that big leap into pretty much making them your un legal hubby, cause once you move in with someone, papers or

[fiacha]

Oh yes, I completely see where you're coming from. And it sucks cuz it wasn't like a "I love you, let's live together" thing, but more like his brother bailed on him and he needed someone to pay rent, and I liked the locaion of his apt. Regardless, it was a bad decision that I will hopefully never repeat. Thanks fot the advice! I hope everything is going well with you!