Having endured one of my own, and not heeded the good advice I was given along the way, I would note the following:1. This is a day for the people getting married. 2. The only expectations that need to be met are *yours*. 3. If you are feeling pressure to perform or meet *someone else's* expectations for the day, tell them to kindly step the bork off, and remind them of your right not to give a crap what they say about your wedding day. 4. If you are putting yourself under pressure to perform, and freaking out about it, maybe you need to reassess what is *really* important to you. Of course I don't expect the advice to work any better for you than it did for me, but I thought I would throw it out there on the off chance that you aren't quite as stupid as I was...
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2. The only expectations that need to be met are *yours*.
3. If you are feeling pressure to perform or meet *someone else's* expectations for the day, tell them to kindly step the bork off, and remind them of your right not to give a crap what they say about your wedding day.
4. If you are putting yourself under pressure to perform, and freaking out about it, maybe you need to reassess what is *really* important to you.
Of course I don't expect the advice to work any better for you than it did for me, but I thought I would throw it out there on the off chance that you aren't quite as stupid as I was...
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