Please read this one, it's important!!!

[finabeejamin]

Last nite I got a call from my beloved Tina and we talked for a few hours about the nature of relationships and processing within ourselves. I believe that this was one of the most important even profound conversations i've ever had. Tina always puts into perspective certain things that I refuse to think about. Things such as "vulnerability is

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[queen_cat_22]

So you've been left with a more optimistic point of view...I'm glad of that but I'm hesitant to about you having reluctance to write (uh, certain) people off. Naturally, there are some people I would like shoot to the moon rather than have them cause you any pain...but what is pain other than an effort to recoup, anyway? There is a big difference between personally interacting with people who have harmed you and sorting the relationship out for youself...they can but don't have to coexist. I think that, even though someone can help, only you can figure and come to terms with your own shit.

Ahhhhh, a talking muffin!!!

[finabeejamin]

sure sure,
but i dont mean to write off the people that matter....

i mean you need to learn to live with yourself and see what that brings. in almost all cases, if people are ACTUALLY close, then the distance will make them stronger in the end, together or not.

you do need to figure out your own shit for yourself, sure, but the only way you'll actually be able to get through that process is with support and validation from people who have been their or have sencere empathy.

mmmm muffins

[queen_cat_22]

yum, cinabuns...but what about CINNAMAN??? Of cinna-mon? dum dum dum. I was kind of thinking of things generally...but Lauren and Yannick are being written off.