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[finstergrrrl]

"i was waiting for the kind of solution where God reaches down and touches you with his magic wand and all of a sudden i would be fixed, like a broken toaster oven. but this was not the way it happened. instead, i got one angstrom unit better, day by day." -anne lamott

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[antiochecho]

It seems like it's also important remember that the external pressure to be 'fixed' is coming from somebody else's definition of 'fixed' or 'okay' or whatever. It's always helped me to figure out what I mean by 'okay' and live as close to that as I can, leaving the other myriad definitions to their respective holders.