Ugh, yeah...that certainly sucks. I will admit I seem to get a bit more out of him now than I used to, and perhaps he's just afraid of spending too much time with you for fear that he's going to put that stress onto you. I certainly think he -wants- to open up, but I expect he is afraid of what may come, or if he might unintentionally hurt or disappoint you.
My mate was keeping some big and unpleasant news from me for the same reason: she didn't want to add to my stress. I felt even worse about that than I did about the actual unpleasant news. With that said, it sounds like they both want to talk so instead of doing nothing and worrying about what "might" happen, they should get together and talk. Then they can deal with whatever _does_ happen together. Support each other through the bad as well as the good and all that.
Frosty I'm jealous that you live in the same city as your mate. Mine is ~1700 miles away. You two should be spending all the time together that you can stand!
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Sorry to hear you're having transmission issues with your boyfriend.
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Frosty I'm jealous that you live in the same city as your mate. Mine is ~1700 miles away. You two should be spending all the time together that you can stand!
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