I do not understand why people think they can just say stuff like this...in that case it seems more like harassment & just saying stuff to get a rise, but in cases where men actually seem like they're trying to get with you? I do not understand why they think this kind of thing will actually WORK. (What, am I going to turn around and go, "why yes, baby, I'll call you anytime"? PLEASE.)
ugh, so irritating. i'd be exceptionally annoyed at it happening inside my work, too. once at NAF a guy had come to fix something in the building and very obviously stared at my breasts as i walked to the fax machine -- and rarely seeing any men in my workplace i felt VERY intruded-upon. (the handful of male employees at NAF and FWHC were not problematic.)
and yeah, it's obviously NOT an attempt to make a connection with someone or even get a date, because no one is that dumb, so it's just a way to communicate ABOUT you TO the other dude -- homosociality etc etc.
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and yeah, it's obviously NOT an attempt to make a connection with someone or even get a date, because no one is that dumb, so it's just a way to communicate ABOUT you TO the other dude -- homosociality etc etc.
sigh. well, i'd again recommend reading through this for witty analysis and warmfuzzy stories: http://fugitivus.wordpress.com/street-luv/
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