what do i do now?

Aug 23, 2009 21:22



i have been having a large debate with myself lately and both sides have extreamly valid points. i dont know how to fix it all, and this is making me depressed. i have asked several people for advice and they all give me the same awnser "i dont know what to tell ya!" why is this such a hard thing to figure out? i know in the end im just going to ( Read more... )

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willowbard August 24 2009, 04:28:03 UTC
In the end, hon, the best person to answer your questions is yourself. No amount of "other opinions" will ever make the choices easier.

Write pro & con lists, sit quietly and think about what will make you happiest. Make decisions that, while not necessarily "fixing" anything, will at least take you one step in the direction you most want to go in.

The great thing about decisions and choices....is that you can ALWAYS make new decisions and choices if you decide you want something else or want to move in a different direction.

Ask yourself questions (I'd suggest some if I had a clue about what it is that's troubling you) and then, even if your answers aren't comfy or "safe"....take some actions and see what happens.

And remember that you can always try something else or make another choice.

*hug* hang in there and keep breathing!!

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