I don't normally use this space for truly personal stuff but you all are my friends and I could really use some friends and cyber hugs right now
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I don't think it's fair when people say they know how you feel, because every person and every situation are different. Saying that, even though my Mother was in poor health because of her smoking, I never expected to lose her suddenly. I did and it broke my heart. It's just over three years and it's still hard to think about without crying.
Like my Mother, your Mom is at peace, and perhaps enjoying a cigarette once again. No matter how much I didn't want my Mother to smoke, it did give her some joy. In her later years, it was hard to take that joy away from her.
I don't comment often on your journal, but I think very highly of you because of your Shelter fics.
Take care of yourself and your Dad. Time does heal (another sucky saying). And it will take time to get use to the new normal.
Oh my God, I'm so f*ing sorry. Both the loss and the lack of warning. Hold onto knowing she was released from suffering. Here's sending you love and support and a bushel of ginormous cyberhugs.
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I'm sure your mom knew you loved her, that's the important thing. You take care of yourself, and know that lots of cyberhugs are coming your way.
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I've lost my mom too It's been 2 years now though but I do know what you're going through
I hope you feel a little better soon I'm sure your mom's looking down on you :)
Again Sorry
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I don't think it's fair when people say they know how you feel, because every person and every situation are different. Saying that, even though my Mother was in poor health because of her smoking, I never expected to lose her suddenly. I did and it broke my heart. It's just over three years and it's still hard to think about without crying.
Like my Mother, your Mom is at peace, and perhaps enjoying a cigarette once again. No matter how much I didn't want my Mother to smoke, it did give her some joy. In her later years, it was hard to take that joy away from her.
I don't comment often on your journal, but I think very highly of you because of your Shelter fics.
Take care of yourself and your Dad. Time does heal (another sucky saying). And it will take time to get use to the new normal.
*hugs*
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Love,
Jackie
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