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fleurdetragedie

Friends Cut

Jul 28, 2006 12:00

If you're reading this and not much else, then you were cut, and you may wonder why, though I gave FAIR enough warning yesterday. There is one reason alone that I cut you, and it has nothing to do with how much I like or dislike you. Some of you I've known for a long time, in person even, and some I barely know at all and have never met.

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madoverlord July 28 2006, 19:30:02 UTC

I already spoke to you more directly, but I wanted to make it clear....

No regrets, No remorse. You are still a friend to me, but Im not about to take a command like that. I dont play those games, and I never will. If that means we clash once in a while, so be it.

As for this event, I want to look into things myself.... but again, we spoke on that.

Call this getting the last word, but Im putting the cards on the table as I see them. What you do from here is your choice....

and as I said, no regrets, and no remorse. I dont want you to have any iether, whatever you choose.

pgsm_serenity July 28 2006, 19:36:04 UTC

hey girl.. sorry that your having probs! *hugs her* I hope I wasn't cut.

fleurdetragedie July 28 2006, 20:21:10 UTC

no, you had nothing to do with it.

sulamento July 29 2006, 02:24:13 UTC

As most people didnt.

fleurdetragedie July 29 2006, 02:38:41 UTC

I added you back. I found another way to handle this situation and I'm sorry for causing DRAMA

risako July 28 2006, 20:02:20 UTC

I'm not trying to step in the middle, but I do have something to say. I think what you did may have been a little drastic.

From what I've seen in your journal, what she did was wrong and hurtful, but asking people who care about both of you to step in the middle and choose between you is hurting them as well. Some of the people that you cut probably do really care about what happens to you and I hope that you'll give them a chance.

I know this might not matter to you at all and obviously friends will disagree sometimes, but I thought that you deserved honesty and in all honesty, this is how I feel. I'll still be your friend either way, because even if I don't agree with everything my friends do, I still think all of them are good people.

fleurdetragedie July 28 2006, 20:22:06 UTC

I mostly wanted people who were at least both to step up and defend me and say "Hey, that's not right."

Since very few people really did that, that's why I cut them. I felt like they were just stepping aside and saying that what she did was "okay."

jubeichan July 28 2006, 22:28:38 UTC

I'm sorry to hear this, I do try to keep you guys both in seperate thoughts. You as one friend and her as another which is why I ignore all the drama going on. I have no strength to get into any drama with anyone and try to wait till it passes over but I know this is something longstanding and not so easy to just blow over.

I don't expect you to add me back on, and yes you do have every right to be angry since I didn't voice my opinon on the matter right away (i was a awake all of 2 hours last night after work ^^;; sorry bout that)

But, despite that good luck in your new apartment with your new kitty, she is very pretty.

ashii_sama July 29 2006, 05:45:23 UTC

Good luck.

ashii_sama July 29 2006, 06:02:06 UTC

Even though I have no idea what happened. O_o I haven't been on LJ all summer.