I figure Walmart would be an exciting destination seems we never shop there anymore. You know that whole go away to someplace to get to know about each other thing. He can stand looking at the hardware and be baffled, I can venture into the make up isle and stand there bewildered. Then we could move on to the lawn and garden section and wonder about garden hoses and tillers. New horizons and all that.
The place we arrived at the decision to get married as opposed to breaking up is still in buisness but has really changed. They don't have quite so many fancy drinks, so going there to have a discussion probably would not have the same affect. We also decided that if our marriage is no longer valid, our son does not exist and therefore when he asks for things for his birthday the end of this month we are off the hook.
Seriously, no trouble here, but rather a silly ramble looking at how many things have changed over the last 28 years.I think the same game can be played by any couple who has been together a long time.
It started as a very silly sort of occurance. Because of my weight loss my original wedding ring and engagement ring stopped to fit ( I have lost 2 sizes so far), and I got a real cheap replacement at christmas because my hand felt naked. It's just a thing I have. Then the other day we were talking and his band from our 20th anniversary renewal ceremony felt odd on his hand and he noticed it had split. Our set from our original handfast stopped fitting him long ago and I wore both till they slipped of my hands in the shower and became hopelessly lost down the drain. Same thing with my ring from out 20th renewal. So I was teasing him that this means we are both off the hook and can choose if we should stay or go. Then we started comparing all the things that are no more. We got married 2 weeks after the big royal wedding ( Charles and Diana) , and they are no longer.The priest is dead so no witnesses if you ignore the 350 guests and 12 attendants who were present. ( We had a big fat catholic wedding to prove to my family that I was
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The place we arrived at the decision to get married as opposed to breaking up is still in buisness but has really changed. They don't have quite so many fancy drinks, so going there to have a discussion probably would not have the same affect. We also decided that if our marriage is no longer valid, our son does not exist and therefore when he asks for things for his birthday the end of this month we are off the hook.
Seriously, no trouble here, but rather a silly ramble looking at how many things have changed over the last 28 years.I think the same game can be played by any couple who has been together a long time.
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