Comments | floating_fog: Hi there

floating_fog

Hi there

Oct 27, 2013 00:22

It's been a while LJ and I'm not sure why... it never seemed like the right time to post something and just... yeah.... So I started Uni and it's awesome so far. Going to study Asian studies has been the best decision of my life and I know I won't regret it even when it will get hard. But this isn't what I wanted to post about. I have a problem... ( Read more... )

all about me, rl

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enchanted_jae October 26 2013, 23:35:44 UTC

A first date is meant to be a sort of "getting to know one another" outing. There's no need for a guy to want/expect a kiss after a first date. If he was interested in you, the thing to do would have been to ask if he could see you again. I'm not surprised that you weren't all that eager to be kissed by someone who was still a virtual stranger to you.

floating_fog October 27 2013, 10:38:39 UTC

Oh... I didn't think about it that way... it's just... well, I don't have a lot of experience but I think that this is the norm... you kiss after a first date, you don't wait for the third or something just for a kiss....

But as it were, thank you for commenting... I feel a lot better now knowing that it's not me (or at least, not all me)

redfeu October 27 2013, 12:14:25 UTC

I'm glad uni's going well! What kind of Asian studies are you doing?

Sorry to hear about the guy thing. :/ Maybe you just need a certain kind of situation to feel comfortable in?

floating_fog October 27 2013, 16:32:53 UTC

I'm studying about the Asian culture: This semester is the Chinese one and next one it will be the Japanese one, language wise I'm taking Japanese and I chose Korean for extra credit :) It really is awesome!

That is just the problem... I don't feel comfortable in any situation that involve intimacy... And I can't help but wonder if it's something that is messed up in my head you know? Like, it's not normal (I think...)

redfeu October 27 2013, 21:41:30 UTC

Oh wow, that's so cool!

Sorry to hear that. Maybe there's some kind of counsellor who would know about it - I highly doubt you're the only one out there in that situation.

*hug*

floating_fog October 28 2013, 20:58:51 UTC

Yeah it is! And it is much more fun then learning French (which I did the mistake of trying to learn....not wise)

I thought about trying to go to see someone but I don't know how I'm going to conceal this from my parents... this is not something I want them to know...

*hugs you back cause you are so awesome*

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