Teenage Angst

[floaton_59]

So i talked to those two chicks (jic they dint want their names to be mentioned, which i understand...) once again about why they were mad at me, and i found out it was because of something about me they didnt like. So, when i tihnk about it...i shoulda changed these things a long time ago but they kinda were motivating me to change for the better

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[squeegieworm]

What exactly do you want to change?

[floaton_59]

hah...yeah after typing frantically i forgot to put what i was changing exactly...:
1) i blow things waaay outta proportion
2) i care too much about what people think
3) i dunno i think thats it...
xOXo, hol

[squeegieworm]

1) I think blowing things out of proportion is genetic (looking back on experience--- my mother and sister), but I guess when you come across Drama (capitlized for it's lifewrecking tendencies) you should express it some way that doesn't involve people. Make up an excuse to leave and write, draw, listen to music, hit things, or whatever makes you feel better. After, and only after you do this, can you make a decision that you won't regret. Crying and yelling is unavoidable, a lot of the time. In that case, just apologize as soon as possible and explain you can't control yourself when angry (if that's indeed true). If you have trouble calming down, imagine the other person struggling to find the words that say sorry. That's often what happens, each side of the Drama irritated at the other not apologizing first.
2) Human nature. If you figure out how to overcome this, tell me how. You're an amazing person, so don't worry about what others think. Cliched, yes. Good advice, yes.

*hug*

Feel better, hon. Hope my ramblies helped somewhat.

[floaton_59]

Your advice really helped me, and i'll keep that in mind the next time i might feel like i'll overdramatize something because you're right, you know. Thanx for taking things seriously and actually truthfully responding to my LJ. You're a great person, and I consider you an awesome friend for being there for me. Anytime you need something, just let me no.
xOXo, hol

hey holly

[anonymous]

hey girl i know we dun really know each other but ya know if ya need any help im always here...
kAit

<3 you so much

[justb4itrains]

<3 nobody is perfect holly, and personally i love all of you including your faults. if people cant accept you for that then screw them.
xoxo jenny

Re: <3 you so much

[floaton_59]

jenny, i luv you too...and you've been such a best friend to me this year, i dont deserve you. thanks for making me feel wanted even when i feel crappy.
xOXo bff, hol

<3

[lvesng4no1]

well holly i agree with jenny and i love you just the way you are and honestly i dont think you should change just for those two people, if they cant accept the way you are then thats their problem and they probably arent good friends if they cant. yay for saturday!

Re: <3

[floaton_59]

soo much luv wifey...and thanks for accepting me. <333

Re: <3

[callmebabe]

i guess i must have missed out on the gene for sugar coating things... whoops

[youmakeamesmile]

well i love you holly! you're incredible because you're always there for me, even if we don't know each other as well as i wish we did. you rock! =)

<3