this is why!

[floopshawswmix]

so i said o i want to go to Chicago before my freinds move away and i am choosing to do so alone if i do so at all. i would rather go with you both. questions...why would you want to go with your ex girlfriend. you want to go with your ex girlfriend to chicago. if it was some other friend i wouldn't care but you used to have sex with this person./

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[alloashley]

dear god, that's not being selfish, that's being healthy! the people who write versus of sustaining on one perosn alone are healthy examples of sick boundries! i'm learning about this all in therapy, and its no good kamyon. you need friends! there's no way you actually believe that having a life outside of a romantic relationship is selfish, do you? god, i hope not. kamyon i'm all hopped up on sugar but it's all earnest! you are a good person and even if you werent you'd still need friends outside of a romance... boundries, you must respect (or build) your boundries!
love you, hope you go to chicago with who you want, even if that's just you, and i hope it rules.
and i also hope you go in the spring, what the fuck is that weathershit right now?

[floopshawswmix]

Thanx Ashley. i just sometimes feel hypacritical like i can't see outside of my own box to take blame for myself in things. i apreciate what u had to say. thank you.

[alloashley]

well it seemed like you were taking blame for too much to me. mhmm... girl, i got you! i hope you knew it was sincere