*Stands on Soap Box*

[flopsymop]

 Before I start, I just have to say that I apologize for talking about relationships again, but it's what's been on my mind a lot lately. So stop reading if you don't want to hear me, but I'm going to write cuz I need to get it off my chest. Again

Comments

[amazingstar]

Not having a job sucks. I've been looking forever and either no one wants me, or I can't find something that I would be willing to do....grrrr

[carolynsinger]

I'm married, mostly because we asked our parents to pay for the wedding. Well, we could've gone to the courthouse, which would have been cheap, but they wanted a to-do about it, so they coughed up. Getting married does cost a lot.

Ditto on the kids. People are asking me when we're having kids... we have NO money! Who has kids when you're paying rent with student loans?!? When we get stable, then we'll think about it. What amazes me is all my high school friends in my hometown, which is one of the poorest areas in all of Ohio, popping out babies and quitting their jobs to care for them. I wonder how they figure they'll get by.

[flopsymop]

I am just not 'there' yet... With marriage, kids, etc. I hope I can get there, one day :) It's just hard to feel comfy with myself when I don't have a steady job yet. Once that hurdle gets crossed, I'll feel so much better. I hate this limbo feeling, and if the economy wasn't such a disaster things wouldn't be nearly so bad. At least I'd like to think so.... haha :)