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[flouritephoenix]

Why do so many boys who are looking to cheat find out I'm poly and think that I'll be more comfortable with their cheating, not less? All they see is the "sexually available" part of nonmonogamy. They don't see the honesty part. I think monogamous girls are more comfortable with affairs. I mean, maybe he'll leave his wife for her, right? But with

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[alymid]

I think because so few people really get how honesty can work better in that situation than sneaking around. So many people are programmed with so many hang-ups about sex, sexuality, relationships and inter-gender communications - that it really doesn't occur to them that one can be non-monogamous without deception.

To me being poly and cheating is just about the stupidest thing you can do. Being given the opportunity and privilege of someones trust and then blowing it *sigh* just a complete and utter waste.

In any case ... blah blah blah ... yeah I get your frustration.