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[flwrchd7]

So for whatever reason LJ is not letting me get on, I blame my crappy internet connection out in the middle of nowhere which is where my new domicile resides. But any way, to the matter at hand, I need to write this down so I can read it later and decide if I am in fact overreacting or if I am being perfectly sane and should be a lot more hurt and

Comments

[sarapada]

Ryan = immature baby.

I think you're completely right in that he's being a moron; I don't think you're being childish at all.

To me, the way that I would deal with it would depend on how the rest of your friends (particularly your roommate) are dealing with it - if they're accepting his behavior (and helping to isolate you from the group), then I would touch base with them and see if they can see what's going on; if they're still interacting with you as if this Ryan guy wasn't being a total douche, then I would say screw Ryan (metaphorically, of course) and just don't deal with him at all. Don't let his shit bring you down.

[circeramone]

I agree...this guy is a total douchebag. He is the emodiment of everything that makes me look at people and think, "Don't make me cut you!"

You aren't being a child by thinking that you deserve to be treated with basic human dignity. You are being a freaking human!!

I personally vote for the cold-shoulder treatment. It'll be better for you in the long run to just completely remove this person from your world, so he can't continue to pollute it with his toxic bullshit. And if he does talk to you, just be all "Wassup?..." and don't even break your stride as you walk away.

But like Sarah said, you might want to touch base with the roomies, to see if they are clueless as to what is going on, or if they are raging bastards as well.