I threw a fuss again
I threw a big fuss again because Mr. Bear is out having dinner with a "girl friend" tonight. It drives me absolutely mad when he uses the expression, "Oh, by the way, I'm taking so-and-so out to dinner on Thursday so I won't be able to see you." And if I phone him sometimes during the midst of it, there's his quiet voice on the other end, "Oh hi, sweetie.. I don't have time to talk rightnow. I'm with so-and-so rightnow and she says 'hi'. I will call you later?"
Argh!!
But a relationship is a relationship, and yes, people within the relationship must abide to certain set of rules, rules that the people in the relationship create! Therefore, I promptly laid these rules out in front of Mr. Bear before he left the door:
1- No intimate contact of any kind, and this includes hugging!
2- Must report back to me before 9:30pm!!
"Understood?"
"Yes, maaam." He shook his head with a sigh.
That poor boy.
Some friends said to me, "What? You let your boyfriend do this, and that, without getting mad at him? How do you do it?" Well, I think I do cut him some slack compared to a lot of other girlfriends. He has a reason to be extremely thankful about that. =T
Perhaps I do feel secure enough in our relationship that it's okay for him to do certain things. A relationship is built on trust and I think we are working towards it.
Blah. You're going to laught at me, now, aren't you? I felt like I've made a lame speech or something.
AH WELL!
I'm gonna go and play some Harvest Moon and woo the girl of my dreams! That game is addicting. O_O
Argh!!
But a relationship is a relationship, and yes, people within the relationship must abide to certain set of rules, rules that the people in the relationship create! Therefore, I promptly laid these rules out in front of Mr. Bear before he left the door:
1- No intimate contact of any kind, and this includes hugging!
2- Must report back to me before 9:30pm!!
"Understood?"
"Yes, maaam." He shook his head with a sigh.
That poor boy.
Some friends said to me, "What? You let your boyfriend do this, and that, without getting mad at him? How do you do it?" Well, I think I do cut him some slack compared to a lot of other girlfriends. He has a reason to be extremely thankful about that. =T
Perhaps I do feel secure enough in our relationship that it's okay for him to do certain things. A relationship is built on trust and I think we are working towards it.
Blah. You're going to laught at me, now, aren't you? I felt like I've made a lame speech or something.
AH WELL!
I'm gonna go and play some Harvest Moon and woo the girl of my dreams! That game is addicting. O_O