Things are...

[foats]

not good. Not good at all. I recently got an e-mail from a friend who was the roommate and will be the roommate again this year with my ex. The message went along the lines of "we don't want to see you because we don't want drama from last year happening again" type stuff. There was more to it but in the end, it came down to "get psychiatric help

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[arinwolfe]

that... sucks. Seriouly, that was rather disloyal of them. I;ve got your back. I mean i've almost walked out on people before for mental issues, so gods know i know how hard it is.

I've also been on the other end and I will not put someone in that place.

peace
-s

[softlykarou]

I second most things that norokrex said.

I'm sending good wishes to you, and I'm proud of what you accomplished this summer.

[li_zhen]

It took a lot of strength to get through this summer. If they don't want to be around to give you the credit you deserve for that, then you're right to leave them in the dust.

You can't ask people to feel differently, but that doesn't excuse a lack of civility. If your ex wants to assuage her own guilt by "smoothing things over," she doesn't deserve your compliance. It won't help anyone involved to try and force a happy face, and you're right to walk away.

I hope you can find little joys in every day, and that you remember that some people are still out there listening. I hope that, and your own strength, will be enough until you find your path.