The Elephant in the Room

Nov 26, 2010 15:57

I danced with my tall, handsome baby brother at his wedding.  His new wife comes from money, so we were at a Utah ski lodge in the height of summer.  The ceremony took place on a mountain in a field of wild flowers.  The band was excellent.  Before the wedding, I had told my new sister-in-law there were two things I would not do:  the Chicken Dance ( Read more... )

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lawchicky November 28 2010, 21:09:33 UTC
Good for you! You've probably done a lot better for yourself having recognized that marriage isn't for you than trying to squeeze yourself into something that never would have fit.

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foolishfiddler November 29 2010, 23:23:37 UTC
It was a process coming to the conclusion that I'm better off single. Societal brainwashing is tough!

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roina_arwen November 28 2010, 22:03:50 UTC
It'll happen when it happens, and if not, that's fine too. As long as you're content, that's what counts. Cats are awesome cuddlers, though!

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foolishfiddler November 29 2010, 23:23:54 UTC
My cats are Olympic caliber cuddlers. Couldn't ask for better.

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gaea_rising November 29 2010, 06:06:35 UTC
Good on you for knowing what's best for you and not settling for less. This was a very well put together piece. :)

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foolishfiddler November 29 2010, 23:24:02 UTC
Thanks so much!

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nyxocity November 29 2010, 06:08:00 UTC
Good for you! You don't need to couple to find happiness, and your happiness is all that's important :)

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foolishfiddler November 29 2010, 23:24:11 UTC
Absolutely!

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locknkey November 29 2010, 09:38:40 UTC
You sound really happy with your choices and that's what matters. :)

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foolishfiddler November 29 2010, 23:24:18 UTC
Thanks!

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