Ah yes, I definitely know this. When it comes to decisions and you are the one who kinda wants to do something else and you say it like that it's all about excluding someone again. In the beginning we had similar problems in our clique, but I think it was me who said once that it's almost impossible to find a solution everyone is completely content with. Since then we rather decide democratically. I mean you can try talking together, find something everyone is more or less comfortable with, but if this isn't possible... And as it sounds in your case everyone was okay with the Sailor Moon costume thing at first.... (sorry, that I can't advise you anything else that probably helps you more)
It's such a stupid situation, you know? If they don't wanna do it, fine, don't do it, but don't make me do something else. I already calmed down though after two of my other friends confirmed that I am definitely not a selfish, friends-excluding bitch. Deciding democratically is probably the way to go, but then the ones with the less votes will be bitchy again.
Seems to be a crappy situation :/ But luckily your 2 other friends say that you aren't selfish and stuff. Hope you can sort things out.
When I'm in situations like that at first I'm completely pissed so that I can only give everyone the advice not to talk to me. I kinda lock myself in a room and read FanFics or do whatever just to calm down, so that I am able to talk with someone at least.
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(sorry, that I can't advise you anything else that probably helps you more)
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It's such a stupid situation, you know? If they don't wanna do it, fine, don't do it, but don't make me do something else. I already calmed down though after two of my other friends confirmed that I am definitely not a selfish, friends-excluding bitch. Deciding democratically is probably the way to go, but then the ones with the less votes will be bitchy again.
GRAAAHR.
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Seems to be a crappy situation :/ But luckily your 2 other friends say that you aren't selfish and stuff.
Hope you can sort things out.
When I'm in situations like that at first I'm completely pissed so that I can only give everyone the advice not to talk to me. I kinda lock myself in a room and read FanFics or do whatever just to calm down, so that I am able to talk with someone at least.
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