I did it...

[footietk]

I finally did it. Although probably not in the best of situations but hey, I told people that I am bisexual.

So, New Years Eve, a group of us had been drinking since 6, we head over to another friends and drink more, then when we are walking to the pub I for some reason believe it would be a good idea to tell my best friend that I am bisexual,

Comments

[jelei]

Congrats, glad everything went well.

And smart move not kissing your friend. That's my piece of advice, never hook up with your friends.

[footietk]

Thank you. When I woke up this morning in my friends flat on the floor with all of them there I just like buried my head in my sleeping bag and thought, did I actually do that last night?! But they were all fine with me in the morning sober, and it hadn't just been a we're drunk too so it's all good!

Yeah I don't think it is a wise move too. Not unless it is something a hell of a lot deeper than just wow, we had a crazy intense moment there!

[lurkingly]

That's impressive. And I'm glad it went so well :)

[footietk]

Thank you :)
Impressive or foolish?! Especially under the influence!

[lurkingly]

Hmm.. I guess it depends on the situation, and the people you're with. But in your case, it worked out pretty good? So I'll stick to impressive ^^

[footietk]

Yeah it went well :) So I'll go with impressive with you :)
Xxxx

[sian_dreamer]

SO brave! i told my friends once when i was v.v.v.drunk, but they all took it as a joke apparently, I don't even remember saying it but nobody believed me :o ... the next day they were like 'you said the funniest thing last night...'

[footietk]

I'm sorry to hear that that happened.
It's amazing what the brain decides is a clever thing to do when drunk.
I hope if you feel ready to, the next time goes better :)
xxxx

[pank3cito]

Hey there! long time since we last talked... hopefully u remember me :P
Anyways I just read ur post and I agree with u, ur friends r the best. And yes, coming out can be a very terrifying experience since u don't know how people will react. So far in my experience I haven't had a bad reaction whenever i tell someone that i am gay. And it just feels so great after u come out, u feel i dunno... free in a sense. So congrats on ur coming out! I am glad u had a nice response. Happy New Year.
Saludos from Mexico. :)

[footietk]

Hey , course I remember you, how have you been?
It is scary. My friends were like why didn't you say earlier, but you have no idea how people will take it though!
I'm glad you've never had a bad reaction :) I'm only at the start of coming out so I don't know how others will take it though...
It really does feel good.
Happy new year :)
Xxxx

[pank3cito]

I have been great! I am in my 6th and final year of med school!
And yes... coming out is a very scary experience, but let me tell u that once u started it just keeps on going u know? I mean u get on a roll and u r more open about it and u tell more people... people that u can trust. Telling ur parents is a whole different thing, I told my dad when i was drunk :P hahaha so imagine, thank goodness he took it very well and nothing bad happened.
Anyways, hope when u tell other people u won't have to deal with bad reactions and such things.
xoxox :)

[footietk]

Wow 6 years is a long time! You looking forward to graduating?
Yeah, I haven't told anyone else yet, but I do feel more confident in myself now. But being in last year of college its hard to be honest with everyone! They can be a bit bitchy and things.
I love the fact you told your dad when drunk!
I dont plan on telling my parents anythime soon to be honest!
xxxxxx