Standards

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Comments

[janux]

One, it's not wrong. If I'm not being a man whore, then I'm only holding someone to the same standard I hold myself. In addition, if they throw their genitals around like cheap mardi gras beads, there's risks of disease tht they may not even be aware they have.

Two, some of them grow up, change. That's always possible.

Three, if she's willing to settle for your boring ass, doesn't that sort of mean you're better than what she was doing?

[force]

Ah, but that's only if she's in it for the love/companionship/adventure of it. If she was in it for the sex, then 'decides she better start thinking about the future' then no, I lose. I got stuck with a desperate, aging whore, not someone who grew up and actually realized what they were doing.

[janux]

IF she's just with you for sex then yes, you're in trouble.

[kurokuma]

A person's character is best measured through their actions, so I think you can pretty much feel free to judge anyone's actions by any standard you see fit. However, you have to bear in mind that the act of passing judgment is in itself something by which another person might decide to determine your character, and that by most standards, being overly judgmental is a fairly unattractive quality. That doesn't mean that there's any inherent wisdom in not being judgmental on a given topic; maybe you're only interested in the small percentage of the population who agrees with you (see me, women, and vegetarianism >_>). It's just a matter of knowing your tools, what they do, and how to use them to best suit your needs.

[lilacwolf]

"what woman has not done this, who is still desirable? What woman does not sleep with their crush of the month if she has a body worth lusting after? .... What person could possibly be seeking that fabled enigima, True Love?"

*raises hand* Right here.

[force]

I don't think you qualify as 'average'. :P

[lilacwolf]

And seriously... women are fucking retarded. I was at a chinese place with my mom and boyfriend and these two girls are talking about fucking people at parties and fucking friends and fucking... well.. practically every guy they meet.

One even said "Well he slipped me something... but I was conscious enough to participate and like it a little". WTF?! Bitch gets date-raped and is like "Oh well..."

I'm still kinda grumpy that Josh slept with one girl before me, but I live with the fact.

[kurokuma]

One even said "Well he slipped me something... but I was conscious enough to participate and like it a little".

-=slaps forehead=-

I propose first we take out the rapists, then the women (and men I suppose) who frivolously make false rape claims, and then these stupid fucking enablers.

[darkmog]

People can always change. And men are guilty of it too. It's called being human and giving into such desires. And when you're sexy/attractive/desirable then it's very easy to find people that share your physical qualities and mate. And just because a women has been with several mean doesn't make her a slut. What if all the men she had been with were boyfriends? It's quite possible and normal to have quite a few before you settle down and find the one you think is the perfect match. It also takes time for one to mature and grow and determine who they are and what they want in life. The girl that one may find may be different than the girl she used to be when she was younger.

And if we all were much closer to society's perception of beauty (well just you guys cuz i'm fucking HOT UNF UNF UNF) then we'd be having a much more different conversation.

Your high standards will only set you up for failure and misery in the end.