My side of the story - VERY LONG - SORRY!

[fordgirl]

Doing this over the internet isn't something I've wanted to do. I wanted to say this to Erins face (thats right, I'm not scared to name names), I didn't want to have to spill our dirty laundry over the internet, but here goes

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[opiatus]

YAY

[opiatus]

Well then, apparently, some of the bleeding hearts out there, think I had a "dig at helen in Krystals journal, its not fukn apropriate, skizz". I dont believe I did "have a dig", I was simply referring to the farce that was friday afternoon.

clus•ter fuck: n:

1. A combination of things going extremely wrong in a short period of time within the same general activity -- caused by stupidity and/or ineptitude.

2. Large quantity of confused people in a disorganized manner.

Thats not having a dig, thats a spot fucking on description of it.

<3 to all concerned.

[infinity135]

Apart from that, I think the paragraph starting with WRONG, is, well... right.

[nire85]

Krys,
As hard as this is for me, and as much as i want to say something, defend myself or the like, im not going to. I dont want this going on and on until we both hate eachothers guts and have everyone againts eachother. I appreciate you saying the whole story, it makes me want to share mine but you pretty much know everything so it would be pointless. Although i didnt name names for a reason, but i guess we are all entilted to our own way of sharing things.
I probably should of done things differently, with the whole LJ thing, and prehaps i didnt think and i cant say i was wrong in that part but i thought it was the way to go, thanks skizz for your opinion too!]
Anyway, Krystal... In the past you have been an awsome friend, and i hope one day we can be friends again. Your an awsome girl and i felt so lucky to have you in my life and be in your presence. I know things will never ever be the same but i hope one day we can put things aside and be friends once again.
-Erin

[jessey_lee]

Chin up Erin.

You have other friends too, if she cant find it in herself to forgive you is it really worth all the pain and drama worrying about it?

[infinity135]

Erin, please try not to worry about people 'choosing' sides. I know neither you nor Krys would ask that of anyone. I'm so glad that you can acknowledge that even though you wouldn't name names in your journal, that this isn't yours and Krys needs to express herself in her own way. I hate seeing you two apart, but nooone can erase time. Time heals most wounds though.

[jessey_lee]

your both at fault there is no inbetween or main person. There is only two of you really involved.

[infinity135]

Even if there are two people involved in a fight, Jessey, there is normally an instigator and a propogator. Whicbever plays the 'bigger' role is the 'main' person. Noone is ever equally at fault. That's not the way life works.

[infinity135]

Excuse me, what part of how I addressed you warranted that little tirade?

I don't think Krystal is really in the wrong at all. She made a mistake by not forward thinking about Erin's feelings one night. She apologised. I didn't say you can't have an opinion, but don't go telling me to fuck up if you're going to voice yours, coz then I have that right as well.

[fordgirl]

Before I went to work today, I found out from Erin she actually picked up Piggins, another one of my ex-boyfriends.

...interesting, to say the least.

[supergirlsuse]

absolutely! ex's are out of bounds and there should be that level of respect to not even get feelings or intentions of WANTING to shag them, regardless. especially if it's adam, because i think everyone that knows you krys knows that even the name is out of bounds.

i think this is a situation totally blown out of proportion and a break-down in communication. perhaps give it time so you both can chill out for a while, but still respect eachothers wishes.