Yet again....People Suck

[fortheloveibear]

Why are you so mad? Upset, that I never made you the top priority all of the time? Does this world bleed just for you? Three words for every one that didnt get to share time with me, or didnt get enough with me, or is upset with the fact that SHIT ALWAYS happens to me..... "LIFE FUCKING HAPPENS

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[taz]

Your gonna be a what? I don't here from you for ever and ever and then I see this online. That not so serious realtionship just became a life long thing, huh? I still love you and miss you and wish you'd visit at least once in your life. Every diner, every Eninem song, and anyone that has any trait of you reminds me of you. The guy with the chocolate when I was feeling bad but also the guy who put the hole in my door.

[fortheloveibear]

I miss you very much myself....I hope you are doing very well. I am so looking forward to being a dad.

[taz]

Who's the mom?

[fortheloveibear]

Duh,....what kind of question is that. If it isnt you,and it aint Ally, and it definitely is not Jeff or myself......well....hmmmmm?

[amoury]

Y'now, it doesn't bother me that you posted in reply to my post. You have full right to. Just as I had full right to write it

PS

[amoury]

And no, I wasn't being hurtful to you. I was being honest with myself. So take back the fuck off. In all my anger towards you, I have never ever ever told you, even in my mind, to fuck off. I'd expect the same.

Re: PS

[fortheloveibear]

You are not me. After we clear the dust, and the radioactive cloud actually disipates (because you Dropped the Bomb,not I) then I will.

PPS

[amoury]

...AND also... you aren't blocked from you seeing me online. I Haven't been online much at all IM wise, so if you don't see me, that's why.
Sorry I keep coming back and back again to comment, but... I keep re-reading your post and have new things to say. If I wanted to block you I would have told you. I'm not immature as to just block you, "nyah nyah" type bull.

[panmodal]

Andy, I'm not quite sure what you're so worked up about. Try to sit back and really look at what the situation is.

You and V. have been involved on various levels for several years, and that relationship has always been marked by your inconstancy. That's not an attack - I think you know me well enough to know that I don't say things just to be spiteful. I'm just saying what has been obvious to anyone watching.

I have little doubt that you have the best intentions in all that you do. I have little doubt that your emotions, when you express them, feel sincere to you at the time. But you don't follow through, Andy. When the sweat and cum have dried and the sun rises on another day, those good intentions evaporate. Things happen, Life happens. And you forget your promises and get on with you. That's a human failing - out of sight, out of mind - and you are correct that you can't be condemned for it

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[panmodal]

Let’s leave behind for now this incident with V. I think, when the dust has settled, it would be better for all involved to let it fade into the past and get on with the rest of their lives.

And that’s what I want to talk to you about, Andy: the rest of your life.

You have contributed to the genetic material of a child, Andy. Whether you grow into a parent, a father is yet to be seen.

I am not writing to you in anger, Andy. I am disappointed at the way things have turned out, but the outcome was too foreseeable for me to be surprised or offended. I am not writing to hurt you, though I think you may well read it that way, nor to judge you from a position of presumed moral authority. I have always liked you, Andy, and I want you to be happy in your life. For your sake, and for the sake of C. and your unborn son, I hope that you will take my words seriously:

From this moment on, your son must be the most important thing in your life, followed by C., followed only then by yourself. You cannot continue in your self-centeredness

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[pjpete]

Wow. I wish I could speak openly like that to Andy. I've known him over 10 years, but I've always stifled myself if not merely for the fact that I know, I personally don't like to hear ANYTHING from ANYONE about my relationships, my life, how something should be done, etc.

I'm not going to pretend I know the history or background here about their relationship, other then bits and pieces from each side, but your last statement really sums it up, for me atleast, and I don't doubt Andy is the same, and that is I have to learn things for myself through experience.

You have to let me fuck shit up to realize right or wrong, and sometimes those things tend to be relationships, which is an unfortunate thing, as that is one of the few things that cannot be easily replaced in this life.

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[fortheloveibear]

pete....blow me. what the hell was that supposed to mean?