What I Find Attractive, Part 1: Women
This is going to be slightly different from the usual fare of this journal, in that I'm talking about what I find attractive on a basic level, as opposed to what I like in the kinky sense. So, strap in. This one even includes pictures(hotlinked ones, but eh)!
So, yes. This is a discussion of what I find most attractive in females. Not much more to it than that, so let's begin, hokay?
Probably my biggest thing in terms of females is that I like a girl to be dominant. I have extreme anxiety issues when I'm "with" a woman, and I like them to take charge. Perhaps it's a product of my being raised almost completely by females, but I cannot be in charge sexually with a woman. It's like my libido shuts down, unless they're the aggressive member of the relationship.
Another thing I like in a woman is fur, or rubber, or cybernetics, or etc., etc., ad infinitum.
Yes, I admit it. I have a definite difficulty being attracted to normal, "stock" human females. This is something that's affected me for freaking years. I can't EVER get off to Victoria's Secret, but Maid Marian from Disney's Robin Hood, Ellen Ripley from Aliens, and KOS-MOS from Xenosaga are like sex in a can. I can get turned on by normal males easily enough... but as far as females go, I find it much easier to be attracted to a furry or a suitably... "different" body type, whether it's cybernetic, alien, or otherwise. I have no idea why. Don't much care, either. As far as female furries go, in tying in with the above, I also find myself more attracted to predatory furs: cats, canines, etc.. Again, the reasoning behind my subconcious on this escapes me, except to say that I prefer to submit, rather than be equal, to a woman. Go fig.
Also, and I realize some of you guys are going to LOVE me for this, I really, really, REALLY like it when a girl is chubby or plump. And to a lesser degree, a girl that is muscular, or taller than me, or otherwise "big" in a sense. For example, I consider this to be ridiculousy hot(the physique, not neccessarily the eating thing).
Now, I'm not talking massive, heaving rolls of fat or anything, nor do I like the "She-Hulk" look, but I definitely like a healthy physique. Stick figures with tits does NOT rank anywhere on my turn-ons list. I also like a girl to be larger than me in general, probably due to the the reasons mentioned in the first paragraph of this post: I like a woman who is in charge.
I also love lesbians. I admit it freely, I often have fantasies that involve me being a woman, with another woman, and I do so FAR more often that I fantasize about being male and with a woman. I find lesbians far more attractive than straight women... maybe it's the "forbidden fruit" aspect. Who knows? Not I.
That's about it, really. As usual, any questions may be directed at me as you see fit. Toodles!
So, yes. This is a discussion of what I find most attractive in females. Not much more to it than that, so let's begin, hokay?
Probably my biggest thing in terms of females is that I like a girl to be dominant. I have extreme anxiety issues when I'm "with" a woman, and I like them to take charge. Perhaps it's a product of my being raised almost completely by females, but I cannot be in charge sexually with a woman. It's like my libido shuts down, unless they're the aggressive member of the relationship.
Another thing I like in a woman is fur, or rubber, or cybernetics, or etc., etc., ad infinitum.
Yes, I admit it. I have a definite difficulty being attracted to normal, "stock" human females. This is something that's affected me for freaking years. I can't EVER get off to Victoria's Secret, but Maid Marian from Disney's Robin Hood, Ellen Ripley from Aliens, and KOS-MOS from Xenosaga are like sex in a can. I can get turned on by normal males easily enough... but as far as females go, I find it much easier to be attracted to a furry or a suitably... "different" body type, whether it's cybernetic, alien, or otherwise. I have no idea why. Don't much care, either. As far as female furries go, in tying in with the above, I also find myself more attracted to predatory furs: cats, canines, etc.. Again, the reasoning behind my subconcious on this escapes me, except to say that I prefer to submit, rather than be equal, to a woman. Go fig.
Also, and I realize some of you guys are going to LOVE me for this, I really, really, REALLY like it when a girl is chubby or plump. And to a lesser degree, a girl that is muscular, or taller than me, or otherwise "big" in a sense. For example, I consider this to be ridiculousy hot(the physique, not neccessarily the eating thing).
Now, I'm not talking massive, heaving rolls of fat or anything, nor do I like the "She-Hulk" look, but I definitely like a healthy physique. Stick figures with tits does NOT rank anywhere on my turn-ons list. I also like a girl to be larger than me in general, probably due to the the reasons mentioned in the first paragraph of this post: I like a woman who is in charge.
I also love lesbians. I admit it freely, I often have fantasies that involve me being a woman, with another woman, and I do so FAR more often that I fantasize about being male and with a woman. I find lesbians far more attractive than straight women... maybe it's the "forbidden fruit" aspect. Who knows? Not I.
That's about it, really. As usual, any questions may be directed at me as you see fit. Toodles!