Comments | fragile_k: Do children ever grow up?

fragile_k

Do children ever grow up?

Feb 27, 2009 13:50

I was hurt as a child. Mildly, but more than once ( Read more... )

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troupatour February 27 2009, 20:58:33 UTC

I've been on the other side of this before. I don't know how to answer your questions exactly. I'm not a trained psychologist. But here's my take ( ... )

fragile_k February 27 2009, 21:17:51 UTC

Thanks for offering a male perspective on this. I know I'm not the only girl who has gone through this. I know why it happens, I just don't know how to stop it. I have pushed guys away before and I don't want to do that this time. I did sent him a text message (how modern) saying I was hurt as a kid, but it's not his fault and I really like him and that's a good thing. He says it's ok, that he still can't wait to see me again. Being happy sure is difficult :P

re: being a child cdev1200 February 28 2009, 17:57:41 UTC

as i have not figured life out... i only have this to offer.
as we grow up, and try different things with different people... it is all new.
sometimes we bring things from the past into the current situation... not a bad or good thing- its just you and who you are with "jr". you will be the person you want to be- you are strong and you know it.
best wiushes to you!
cdev1200