Food for thought...

Jul 09, 2007 21:06

People who don't have a problem with being intimate have committment issues, people who don't have a problem with committment have intimate issues...

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undergroundsea July 9 2007, 22:02:11 UTC
I completely concur.

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undergroundsea July 9 2007, 22:02:38 UTC
except for me, because I'm perfect *g*

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frantic_raver July 10 2007, 00:01:16 UTC
lol...I fall into the, "no probs with intimacy/committmentaphobe". But I think I'd much rather that, than the alternative...

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undergroundsea July 10 2007, 21:45:13 UTC
The other option is just a sucky relationship, which is inevitable probably once you commit *s*

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undergroundsea July 10 2007, 21:47:08 UTC
Oops, logging in would be great *s*

Btw I sent you your cds only yesterday because life got in the way a bit. Sadly I think one of them might skip because it is on this brand of cds i've used for years and only just realised is total crapola! *s* All the CDs I've made for myself and people are mostly on this brand so I feel really dumb!!

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tatteredreverie July 14 2007, 12:45:40 UTC
Hehehe. I have no problem with being intimate...have a problem with committment, though.

Depends what you mean by intimacy: if it's just sexual I agree with the first, but if you mean emotional (as well), I can't say I do.

Never put much thought into the other...

Blah, anyways, I was journal-jumping and came across yours. I'm a friend of antoinette_1 (if you are reading this, yes, I'm talking about you, Ralph! :P) and you seem quite interesting.

I'm a typical whinging teen, but I like reading entries (and commenting). ;)

Add me?

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Added... frantic_raver July 14 2007, 13:48:17 UTC
I too have committment issues...But I've put it down to the fact that I am this total procrastinator, who really doesn't want to committ to anyone but is all for happy endings...

I mean not having a problem with intimacy in a sense of loyalty. Being able to give yourself up on an intimate level and be so in tuned with your own body that you know when it's not just sexual and emotion is crossing into it. And Sharing that emotional connection throughout sex but then be a complete committment retarded person outside the bedroom , lol or wherever grabs your fancy... Meanwhile I'll prolly read that in the morning and realise that I made absolutely no sense at all...

I'm quite interesting yes... But I will warn you, once added there is lol access to a lot of my friends only rambling! Hehehe I'm totally a whinging teen in my 20's!!!

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Re: Added... tatteredreverie July 14 2007, 23:30:01 UTC
Hahaha, I think get what you mean. Some people can give all of themselves through sex, because that's the only way the know how to love? Meh, now I'm confusing myself too. :P

I'm a huge procrastinator as well, but I think mine has a lot more to do with the fear of rejection. I guess a part of me is scared that if I get too close to someone, later on down the track the relationship will fall apart and I'll end up getting hurt.

*Shrugs*

Whinging is good, hehehe, glad to hear that you're still a teen in spirit. ;)

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