080911 SEXY SLEUTH

[frappetique]

I realize that most of the time when I decided to give help some complete stranger or so, were the times when I feel the absolute worst about myself which is conflicting, am I doing nice things so I can feel better about myself? I mean, I feel like doing these are just… a way to help myself rather than help other people - some twisted sense of self

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[gachiban]

At the end of the day you've made someone happy by helping them, whether or not it was "genuine". I have no rights to tell you what you should and shouldn't do, nor to lecture you about anything, but I don't think looking at yourself negatively like that will help you any. Generally speaking, people, when feeling bad about themselves, they tend to turn every single thing they do as something that is not genuine or keep finding faults/flaws in themselves, and like the person above said, it's unhealthy. I think there's really no point of questioning every single thing we're doing, it'll just tire us out. We had enough of questioning things that people do, questioning ourselves will just eat us up. I'm not a psychic so I don't know if that's really what you're feeling right now, but all I can say is that you have to know that you are not worthless. You are here for a reason. We are here for a reason.