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[frazzy]

I'm happy to report that the date went well. We had a great conversation! It flowed well, with lots of laughs and no awkward silences. She's an interesting, artistic, quirky lady, not to mention attractive...my inner lust was particularly stirred when she mentioned having a closet full of fetish outfits

Comments

[minxclothing]

I'm glad to hear it went well!!
Enjoy it and see what happens :)

[andrasta]

Rolly, no games. You're overthinking and over analyzing. I hate it when people play games, female or male.

If you feel like you want to be romantically involved with her, go for it. Ask her out again. Though you're not exclusive and can definitely date other women, what signal does that send out? Give her your attention, your full attention, and you stand a better chance of showing her the real you. Besides it goes two ways. She may decide she wants to date a bunch of people too, and you may not be the one chosen. I'm not saying she won't, because I think you're awesome, I'm just saying it goes both ways.

To sum up, if you have feelings for her, there's no reason to play games.

[lon_gnome]

dude, it's a second date, you're not asking her to marry you. If you're not putting too much pressure on "pursuing someone romantically" you're more likely to actually get to know them instead of trying to form a relationship instantly. So just get to know her for a while and let her get to know you. If there's any mutual romantic feelings you wont have to 'pursue' each other, it'll just happen. If it doesn't 'just happen', then that's not it.