Comments | frimples85: OK, I'm tired of hiding this.

frimples85

OK, I'm tired of hiding this.

Apr 07, 2005 03:08

I can't keep this in anymore. I'm tired of having everything I do be for everyone but myself. I quit. This may hurt some people or anger people, but I have to get it off of my mind for a while ( Read more... )

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You wont die an old creepy cat lady. woodoelfopansy April 7 2005, 14:58:32 UTC

You wont. You are too good of a person to not find someone to love you the way you love them. It might take a long time or a couple of months. But, guess what. You are only 19. You have your whole life to choose who that person is. You can pick and choose. You can afford to be choosy. I bet if you actually looked around there are many, and I mean MANY, guys who want to be with you. Who want to show you the real way you should be treated. There are too many guys out there for you to be stuck on one that doesn't seem to even care about your feelings. I know you don't want to admit this but, he does totally disregard your feelings. You need to move on. I know you don't even want to hear that. I guess what I am saying is probably just getting you upset or mad at me so I am going to stop talking now. I love you and I just want the best for you. I just don't want him to hurt you anymore. I will talk to you later.
Bebo.

oh goodness bambi_425 April 7 2005, 15:16:39 UTC

you will NOT die a creepy old cat lady...if you do then i will be one too. and i will not come to terms with that lol. now come on girl there are so many people that love and care about you and we want what is best for you. i'm on a different side then everyone else though. because i know how you feel about him because it's how i feel about the other him lol. but my point is that you love who you feel you should love. and until you don't think you should love them anymore beit they won't love you back or something else. if they can't love you then they don't deserve to have your love to begin with. but you will always have MY love sister!! I LOVE YOU BUNCHES!! i'll ttyl. biffy

This is Adam not Trishia. woodoelfopansy April 7 2005, 15:24:58 UTC

Hey first thing i want to say is if someone told trish to move on from me she couldnt just like i couldnt from her,so i know how you feel.I assume you found that special connection with him thats hard to find but NOT impossible.But if he doesnt show ability to change or even the desire to treat you better.trish will disapprove of me saying this but if you feel you can be happy with him then go for it,BUT dont lie to your self,dont try and covience your self he can change if he cant.i also dont want you to get hurt,heart ache can hurt worse than a gun shot wound,and i know how it can feel.Just be careful and think things through.
with concern and love
adam

OK, so the creepy cat lady thing was going kind of overboard frimples85 April 7 2005, 20:59:39 UTC

Trishia: YOU are only 19, and guess what? You found that person for you. Sure there MAY be guys out there who would want to be with me, but the thing is I don't want to be with any of them. If I told you to move on and get over Adam, what would you have done? The same thing you did do, and what I did.....act like everything is ok and that you were moved on. Well, how well did that work for either of us? I'm not mad or upset with you. I love you too much ( ... )

Re: OK, so the creepy cat lady thing was going kind of overboard darkelfdelila April 8 2005, 21:46:31 UTC

you will find the person for you. just like i will. i know it wont happen anytime soon, and i accept that. im trying to see if i can make it on my own before i try to make it with some one else. i know that im only 17 and i shouldnt even be trying to find the peson for me, but you know me. i want to start my life as soon as i can. that way i can have time to do eveything i want to do. but im still sitting here with no one in my life,no one to love, and no one to love me back. but i will go on, i have too. and it is a very good reason to take time and find your self. it worked for me didnt it. well kinda. and i know we all dont like him, but if you choose to be with him we wont hate you. we are just scared that he isnt the best for you, but if you feel its right then its right. only you can decide whats best for you. i love you. babs