i've been in a few sassy cities and idk, i think you just have to be proactive! cliques form naturally a lot of times out of convenience. i think it's more likely than not that they're not actively leaving you out, if that makes sense? if you're not part of a core group that's always together than you might not come to mind, but i bet if you send out a text being like "hey, let's hang out next time everyone gets together!" then they'll think of you next time around
i agree with this [the convenience thing]. i live further away from all the chicago sassies/don't get to hang out as much for various reasons and i'm unfortunately not as close to all of them as i'd like to be.
I literally think that I'm better off dead. My past was fucked up and I've never been happy even as a child I love my bf but I know dealing with me is hard for him sometimes and he will get tired of doing it. I got into grad school but I can't afford it and I feel like I shouldn't bother and just make a helium mask and say goodbye tbh
i often worry that no one likes me in real life. and the fact that i've moved home, the circle of friends that i had here are too cool for me. they go out often to drink and spend money. don't get me wrong, i love doing that. but i'm just always so broke and i feel left out. all my best friends are far away and doing their own thing and i'm stuck here.
mainly, my circle of friends here were dudes. but they've added so many new people, mainly pretty girls and it makes me feel ugly and unincluded.
it's true though; life is objectively meaningless so you can choose what to find meaningful and important. you can choose to make friend and family meaningful, or money, or beauty, or anything you want. just because it's not objectively meaningful doesn't mean it can't be meaningful for you
it probably will. i'm thankful to have finally picked a field where literally everyone with a degree & licensure who wants a job can get a job.
It blows to have to play into stereotypes, but be smiley and shit to get in the door if you have to/ aren't of that personality type. Most importantly, KNOW YOUR SHIT. People can try to knock your weight, but if you are sharp, someone somewhere won't be a superficial asshole & will recognize your skills.
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mainly, my circle of friends here were dudes. but they've added so many new people, mainly pretty girls and it makes me feel ugly and unincluded.
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as if life was that easy
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It blows to have to play into stereotypes, but be smiley and shit to get in the door if you have to/ aren't of that personality type. Most importantly, KNOW YOUR SHIT. People can try to knock your weight, but if you are sharp, someone somewhere won't be a superficial asshole & will recognize your skills.
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