i am the reason you did not work. yes, i am awesome.chelsdoggAugust 16 2005, 10:35:55 UTC
in answer to your question:
YES. if the guy decides he doesn't wanna be dumb and emo and get all "oo i like you" on you. then good. as a girl, you can appreciate him as a friend or boyfriendish fellow the same. and girls' emotions are so fickle anyway it doesn't really matter. but for guys...once they decide they like a girl, it takes some sort of rejection to cure it. and even then that usually makes them like or want the girl more, but their egos are bent. basically...if a guy develops feelings for you, you can try to ward them off nicely by being like no dude we should totally just be friends he he...but if you tell him seriously you like him too YOU ARE BOTH SCREWED! learned from experience, recounted for your relational pleasure. love, chelsea
Re: i am the reason you did not work. yes, i am awesome.funbonnie3August 16 2005, 11:17:44 UTC
thanks for your comment ...so ... i have one "yes" ... yes you can be friends .... yeah i agree with you on the whole guys egos get shot down and they get all weird.... like me ego can get shot ...and i'll be upset, but i'll bounce back and wanna be friends... guys seem to have issues with that ...what's up wit dat ??? lol
i think it's completely possible!! with some guys it's harder, but it's totally possible. most of my best friends are guys. look at justin, for example... we're just friends... it'd be impossible for us to be more than.
chelsea's right. once rejected, most guys will give up... i say most. others are stupid and don't understand the meaning of "no, i hate your face" kjdfhgkjsdhfgkjsdfhg.
chelsea's wrong. sorry chels, but what about steve and i?? we aren't screwed. of course, it took me a year and a half to even know he liked me and took me another few months to tell him i liked him back... anyway, after we broke off the first time, we were still best friends... a little rocky and first, but we were, then. we are now. and i'm sure whatever happens, we will be still. i think it just depends on the guy and how close you are to them.
in short, it's possible. there are always guys out there looking for an awesome friend to be just his friend. :)
what i meant by "screwed" was that if you tell a guy that you seriously like him, it will be very difficult to be his friend afterwards. not impossible, but not easy to do once you have given him false hope.
Feelings will come regardless though, its how they handle those feelings that decides if they can be just friends.
I've been "just friends" with every girl i've met, doesnt mean i didnt have feelings for them, but i dont push my feelings onto them if i dont have a hint that they maybe feel the same way.
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YES. if the guy decides he doesn't wanna be dumb and emo and get all "oo i like you" on you. then good. as a girl, you can appreciate him as a friend or boyfriendish fellow the same. and girls' emotions are so fickle anyway it doesn't really matter. but for guys...once they decide they like a girl, it takes some sort of rejection to cure it. and even then that usually makes them like or want the girl more, but their egos are bent. basically...if a guy develops feelings for you, you can try to ward them off nicely by being like no dude we should totally just be friends he he...but if you tell him seriously you like him too YOU ARE BOTH SCREWED! learned from experience, recounted for your relational pleasure. love, chelsea
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Peace ... enjoy your rainy non hillside day
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chelsea's right. once rejected, most guys will give up... i say most. others are stupid and don't understand the meaning of "no, i hate your face" kjdfhgkjsdhfgkjsdfhg.
chelsea's wrong. sorry chels, but what about steve and i?? we aren't screwed. of course, it took me a year and a half to even know he liked me and took me another few months to tell him i liked him back... anyway, after we broke off the first time, we were still best friends... a little rocky and first, but we were, then. we are now. and i'm sure whatever happens, we will be still. i think it just depends on the guy and how close you are to them.
in short, it's possible. there are always guys out there looking for an awesome friend to be just his friend. :)
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Feelings will come regardless though, its how they handle those feelings that decides if they can be just friends.
I've been "just friends" with every girl i've met, doesnt mean i didnt have feelings for them, but i dont push my feelings onto them if i dont have a hint that they maybe feel the same way.
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