Two minutes ago, my mother rang back my aunt who rang us earlier with this urgent crytpic message about having important information to tell them when they got back from holiday and before my Gran leaves
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And I agree about that after-death time. It is the hardest, both for people who knew and loved the deceased and than also to those who didn't have so many emotional connections to them.
When my uncles died, it was a bit difficult for me to feel much anything, since I didn't know them so well. Two of them lived in Spain and though we did visit, I never got to know to them so well... I felt like I was being treacherous for not being able to be so sad as my mum was... I didn't know how to grieve like the family did, anyway. I felt like I needed time to even comprehend the whole thing... No, I didn't want to be together all the time either.
So I say, you just go for that long walk of yours. You can't help by sitting in and crying, especially if you'd need some alone time. Tell your mum you need a moment, sweetie. I'm sure she'll understand. *hugs again* *pats hair*
*hug* i really don't know what to say... if you need anything i'm here, and the zombieness passes but you know that. i love you and hope that everything improves soonn. you know where i am.
I know exactly how you feel. Two of my uncles suddendly died this year and the rest of my family has had cancer problems >.< Flo is right about the zombieness passing, just give it a bit more time.
I really did have an amazing weekend with you and if there is anything I can do for you just let me know xxxx xxxx xxxx xxxx
Death forces everyone to remember that they are mortal, and the knowledge thaat we are going to die and leave all teh people that we love is worse than losing the loved one. Go for your long walk and think about everything - just generally clear your head and remember - live your life. Not that you live a restrained life!! I'm sorry - I didnt know when you spoke to me on Sunday night - I thought you sounded a bit odd but I didnt think about it. If you need anyone were all here for you. I know you dont do physical displays of affection and whatever but if theres anything we can do let us all know. *Hugs*
First post ever on here and I don't know what to say, promise the zombie thing won't last. Hope everything improves for you soon, we're all here for you if you need us. xxx
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And I agree about that after-death time. It is the hardest, both for people who knew and loved the deceased and than also to those who didn't have so many emotional connections to them.
When my uncles died, it was a bit difficult for me to feel much anything, since I didn't know them so well. Two of them lived in Spain and though we did visit, I never got to know to them so well... I felt like I was being treacherous for not being able to be so sad as my mum was... I didn't know how to grieve like the family did, anyway. I felt like I needed time to even comprehend the whole thing... No, I didn't want to be together all the time either.
So I say, you just go for that long walk of yours. You can't help by sitting in and crying, especially if you'd need some alone time. Tell your mum you need a moment, sweetie. I'm sure she'll understand. *hugs again* *pats hair*
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i really don't know what to say... if you need anything i'm here, and the zombieness passes but you know that.
i love you and hope that everything improves soonn. you know where i am.
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I know exactly how you feel. Two of my uncles suddendly died this year and the rest of my family has had cancer problems >.< Flo is right about the zombieness passing, just give it a bit more time.
I really did have an amazing weekend with you and if there is anything I can do for you just let me know xxxx xxxx xxxx xxxx
~Emma sends her love as well~
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I'm sorry - I didnt know when you spoke to me on Sunday night - I thought you sounded a bit odd but I didnt think about it. If you need anyone were all here for you. I know you dont do physical displays of affection and whatever but if theres anything we can do let us all know.
*Hugs*
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First post ever on here and I don't know what to say, promise the zombie thing won't last. Hope everything improves for you soon, we're all here for you if you need us. xxx
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