So... I thieved Nicolas' copy of Gender Outlaw and have been reading it since.. oh.. this morning. But it (naturally) made me think about gender... about what it means.. and about my own
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You sound very much like me, in terms of what you like and/or dislike.. I am in jeans most of the time, have enjoyed being mistaken for male ( years back when I was much thinner ) and generally enjoyed fucking with gender, but still and all, prefer having a pussy, like it being penetrated like silky stuff near my skin and would rather seduce from the pleasure of opening to someone .. Many things in common :) I don't think, for me, that I lack gender..I think definitions of gender, are poorly described, and characteristics are often erroneously attributed to
I think where my problem with it comes in is... if I say I'm this gender or that gender, it seems to give other people a certain idea of what I'm supposed to be like. And... I don't really understand what gender is. I think that's the issue. I understand identifying with certain physical body parts, even if they're not the ones you're provided biologically. But beyond that... what makes a gender?
And I don't have any firm beliefs in that area, it's purely just me trying to understand it all.
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I am in jeans most of the time, have enjoyed being mistaken for male ( years back when I was much thinner ) and generally enjoyed fucking with gender, but still and all, prefer having a pussy, like it being penetrated like silky stuff near my skin and would rather seduce from the pleasure of opening to someone ..
Many things in common :)
I don't think, for me, that I lack gender..I think definitions of gender, are poorly described, and characteristics are often erroneously attributed to
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Tis I, who informs what gender can be..
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I think where my problem with it comes in is... if I say I'm this gender or that gender, it seems to give other people a certain idea of what I'm supposed to be like. And... I don't really understand what gender is. I think that's the issue. I understand identifying with certain physical body parts, even if they're not the ones you're provided biologically. But beyond that... what makes a gender?
And I don't have any firm beliefs in that area, it's purely just me trying to understand it all.
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