Its rough, and I don't think it'll ever stop hurting, not completely. You just have to remember that the people we love never really leave us, they're still in our hearts. I kind of hit that point on my birthday. It was the first one that my grandfather didn't take me out for dinner, like he's done every year since I was take-out-to-dinner-able. Its been about a year since he's died, and yeah, it still hurts a lot. But I try to remember that he's still with me, and he wouldn't want me to grieve forever. He'd want me to get out there and live my life to the fullest, and enjoy every second I have. I'm sure your parents would want the same for you. *drive by hug*
I know what you mean. The past is like a ghost i know i find myself just sitting on the computer then breaking out in tears. I think it will always feel that way but after awhile you will accept that sadness. You won't cry or fall to pieces but it will still hurt inside but you will understand things a little better.You will feel its ok to be sad. You just need to get to that point in your life.
i'm sorry sugar. i kinda have an idea what you're feeling now... uhm. but hey. let's hang out some more after christmas. Sally is like the glue holding ya together, i guess. hold on to the good stuff... <3
It's not something you'll ever stop thinking about or mourning man...but you can't let the time of year get you down. This is going to be Sally's first christmas, thats something to look at positively. This is yours and Lizz's first christmas as husband and wife, this is your first Christmas as a Family. It may not lessen the hurt, and it shouldn't...but it will distract you and help to heal the pain with happier ways to associate the time of year.
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